An incisive exploration of masculinity in this innovative production
Sam Grabiner’s Boys On The Verge Of Tears is the latest recipient of the Verity Bargate Award, and you can see why it’s a winner. A tender, funny, often razor-sharp exploration of masculinity in many of its forms, it’s a play deserving of an audience. But once there, does it move them?
Grabiner is clearly a huge talent. Incisive observation is translated into well-crafted dialogue to create engaging, heartfelt characters and that perfect blend of believability and theatricality. Some scenes fizz and fly by, others take their time, but their strength is always in what links them and bubbles underneath. There are long monologues, intimate, natural duologues and slightly surreal group scenes, yet one always feels safe with Grabiner weaving the threads.
He’s helped by James MacDonald’s direction which impressively manages to maintain the show’s energy and keep the audience engaged, a difficult task given the fact the show traverses multiple locations with a single set—a men’s bathroom. That’s before we mention the ingenuity that abounds in some transitions. I’ll save the surprises of character’s appearing for your viewing. Ashley Martin-Davis’s set is delightfully functional for a restroom; indeed, every design element is perfectly pitched from Peter Mumford’s shifting of outside sunlight as time passes to Ian Dickinson’s snatches of conversations from the world behind the door.
The cast are a joy. With some lightning quick changes, they run the gamut of age and personality and cover over 50 characters with just the 5 of them—and one younger member. Matthew Beard, David Carlyle, Calvin Demba, Tom Espiner and Maanav Thiara all deserve their flowers for this performance, and it feels unfair to single any one of them out. One thing’s for certain: they have effortless chemistry and a playfulness which is infectious. Some particularly impactful moments also suggest a lived experience which only helps the evening.
Could it be ten minutes shorter? Probably, but so could most debuts. The ending is powerful but feels a tad indulgent, as if the final edit needed a sharper knife. On the walk away from the theatre, my friend and I found ourselves talking excitedly about the topics of the play but surprisingly unmoved at the final curtain. Impacted, sure, but not moved.
Mostly, though, it’s a success, and the kind of show one hopes a sixteen-year-old boy will go to see with his seventy-year-old father: a study of boys and men and their capacity for violence and softness. It’s certainly an often-uncomfortable reminder of the strength of our defences and our unwillingness (or fear) to overcome them, of the danger of shutting off our vulnerability. As we peer into this private space, the show reminds us that these conversations must not only happen behind closed doors.









