An excellent play about grief and loss that will have you laughing and leave you thinking.
Dead Mom Play is a dark comedy written and directed by Ben Blais. It stars Griffyn Bellah as Charlie, a neurotic teen struggling to grapple with his grief, Hannah Harquart as Charlie’s mother who is slowly dying, and Joseph Bellis as death. Not the most usual premise for a comedy, even a self-described dark comedy, and yet there is a great mixture of comedic and more heartfelt moments,
This is a show that grabs you by the neck and forces you to pay attention, but in a good non-sadistic sort of way. It is paced at a mile a minute and Bellah in particular has to rattle through a large amount of dialogue at a rapid pace. It has a frenetic energy that is smartly punctuated by slower and quieter moments which give greater impact to both. The script has an almost poetic quality to it and ebbs and flows beautifully. At one point the famous “to be or not to be” speech from Hamlet is recited, and this actually felt in-keeping with everything that came before and after. I am not claiming that this script should be compared to Shakespeare, as it is full of modern references and is perhaps more closely comparable to Aaron Sorkin’s quickfire dialogue, but it does certainly share a lyrical quality that appears in Shakespeare’s work as well.
The references to pop culture, both present and past, come thick and fast, and while not all of them were familiar to me, this did not impact my enjoyment of the show. Some of the references are quite clever and obscure with some presumably having been updated since the show was previously put on last year, as they were very topical. The show is at points pretentious, but the show also discusses this fact and gives a knowing wink to the high importance that some artists put on their work, some of which is very much not deserving of any importance.
All of the performances were strong, but the show really rests on the performance of Griffyn Bellah who has the vast majority of the dialogue and drives forward the energy of the show. Luckily Bellah gave an exceptional performance. The melding and mixing of accents was very well done and he shows the full range of emotions of both a scared and avoidant teenager as well as the “real world” character struggling to look back and come to terms with his grief.
A show about a dying mother and her teenage son has the potential to be overly macabre and overwrought with emotions, but this show mixes the comedy with the tragedy brilliantly. It had me laughing and also on the brink of tears. At 60 minutes this show flies by and I absolutely recommend it to anyone.
Dead Mom Play played at the Union Theatre from the 14th – 17th April 2025.










