a cool concept, a fun duo, and an authentic, sincere and vulnerable piece of work
‘Love to Love’, written by Flo Petrie and directed by Oli Bates, having just finished its run at the Golden Goose Theater, is a deep and vulnerable examination of love and relationships. Throughout the play, Petrie and her actor counterpart Charlie Collinson very accurately portray the high pressures and ridiculous expectations people face in today’s dating scene in order to find ‘the one’, or maybe just someone. Why do we care so much about finding our soulmate? Is a soulmate something we truly need, or something we have been convinced is essential? Are the blockages that stop us from finding true, healthy love external, or do we place them upon ourselves?
The play is set in a dating game, inspired by the rise of dating apps and AI, allegedly tailored to find perfect matches and guarantee to make them fall in love through the infamous 36 questions that supposedly may lead to love. We observe the two nameless characters, played by Petrie and Collinson respectively, as they navigate the rules and questions of the game and try their absolute best to be compatible with each other, in true and entertaining enemies-to- lovers fashion. As we move further into the play, we come to realise that it’s more than a dating show; a button that reprograms the player allowing them to restart the experience, the ability to reenact memories, and the threat of death if the players don’t fall in love by the end of the game also come into play, creating an intense element of mystery that evokes interest and engagement. After countless attempts, progress and setbacks, trials and errors, interrogations and confessions, and many emotional outbursts, the play arrives at the beautiful and very truthful lesson that the very first step to find love with others, is to be in love with oneself, and in order to do that one must tackle all the self-inflicted restraints we
put upon ourselves.
As cool and fascinating as the concept of the dating show slash experient is, it unfortunately falls a little flat in execution; there is such intense investment and build up over the mysterious restart button and the death threat, and the audience expects a plot twist or at least an explanation as to why the guy remembers all the restarted attempts but the girl does not, but all of which remain unanswered when the play is over. I also wasn’t thrilled with the stereotypicality of the characters; they were definitely reflective of true sociocultural phenomena in the dating world, but they did feel like caricatures of stereotypes rather than real people. And finally, as impactful as the restarts were, sometimes humorous and sometimes agonizing, they did create an imbalance of energy which did drag out the play more than needed. Overall as much as I enjoyed certain parts of it, the confusion with which I left the show still lingers.
Nevertheless the play is a beautiful conversation and a nice watch. There are golden moments of well-delivered and entertaining humor, impactful displays of emotion, and the focus shift and build-up to the true point of the play is well-done. It absolutely gives food for thought and space for reflection, and is definitely true and accurate to real experiences and human nature. ‘Love to Love’ is a cool concept, a fun duo, and most of all an authentic, sincere and vulnerable piece of work.



