“A charming show about grief, menopause, and new friends.”
Kindling, written by Sarah Rickman (who also stars) and directed by Emma Gersch, is a warm and frequently charming production that brings together five perimenopausal women on a mandatory camping trip. They are embarking on this adventure to fulfill a late friend’s final wish, and in doing so, they are thrust into an unfamiliar environment where shared grief and clashing personalities ultimately forge unexpected bonds.
The core appeal of Kindling lies in its genuine depiction of people connecting, sharing memories, and ultimately becoming friends. It’s a joy to watch this realistic ragtag bunch warm up to each other. The notes of shared grief are handled with a refreshing authenticity and the emotional and pensive moments are where the show truly shines, feeling very real and never overdone. The comedic elements, while occasionally broad and predictable, generally land well and contribute to the play’s light touch. Bonus points are due for some particularly believable drunk acting that adds to the jovial atmosphere.
While the eventual connection feels true, the initial stages of the women’s relationship occasionally strain credibility. Some of the characters are really quite mean to each other from the off, a level of overt antagonism between near-strangers that feels bizarre and not true to life.
Furthermore, while all the characters are somewhat heightened, the character of Rose, played by writer Sarah Rickman, stands out as being almost a toddler in an adult’s body. For me, this characterisation crossed the line from being merely heightened into feeling unreal, almost belonging in a different show entirely.
A standout element is the excellent set design by Abi Groves. A painted backdrop of a forest scene cleverly melds into real branches, with leaves, twigs, and dirt scattered on the floor. This attention to detail succeeds in grounding the play, helping to bring the whole show to life.
In conclusion, Kindling is a charming if imperfect show. It tackles themes of grief, menopause, and new friendships with a winning spirit and real emotional depth. Though the cast is exclusively middle-aged women, the show’s appeal extends far wider. Its fundamental story of human connection is universal, managing to charm audiences of all ages and genders.
Kindling is playing at the Park Theatre until November 15th. Tickets are available here.











